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5 MISTAKES TO AVOID WHEN YOU HIRE A CONFIDENCE COACH

5 Mistakes to avoid when you hire a confidence coach

In this blog post, I will share the 5 mistake people make when they hire a confidence coach so that you can find the best match for you and get the results that you want.

Before we start, let me introduce myself and tell you why you should listen to me. My name is Ellis and I’m a women’s coach and spiritual teacher who helps women with confidence, overanalysing and self love.

I have worked with lots of different type of women and hired coaches myself that supported me through my career and personal growth.

From my experience, the key to success when working with a confidence coach is to take seriously the process of finding someone. What you do when you hire a confidence coach will determine your satisfaction during the process and your results.

Let’s dive straight into it.

You need to avoid these 5 mistakes if you want to hire a confidence coach successfully. 

 

1. BOOK THE FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH THE COACH

Majority of the confidence coaches (probably all of them), offer a free strategy call. You have to book it and show up.

How are you supposed to know if this person can help you if you don’t speak with them?  You need to try them out, same as you would test drive a car before you buy it. 

You can have an idea in your mind of who they are but it’s only when you actually talk to them that you will know if they are the right fit for you. 

This is such an important part of the process that you can’t just overlook.

You don’t have to hire them. If you don’t like them, it’s totally fine. This is normal practice in the industry, they are aware of it. However, it’s crucial for your success, that you speak with the confidence coach before deciding.

 

 

2. BE HONEST WITH THE CONFIDENCE COACH WHEN YOU ARE APPROACHING THEM.

You need to be honest and open when you speak with the coach. 

I understand it could be scary to open up to someone and show your vulnerabilities. However, if you take that leap of faith, the benefits that you can get from it, I promise you they are worth it.

This it’s important for both of you.

Your confidence coach can’t really help you if you aren’t honest with them. They need to know what’s really going on in order to present a solution. 

You need to know if you like working with them. How can you know if you like them and they are the right fit for you if you aren’t vulnerable with them?

The entire process it’s about you opening up and removing layers, after layers. If you are not ready to open up to them, you won’t find the right confidence coach.

 

3. BE WILLING TO DO THE WORK

Your coach cannot do the work for you. The confidence coach will give you the tools, will hold space for you and create the environment, but cannot do the work for you.

Only you can change your life.

It means that you need to be open and coachable. You need to be receptive to advises and be willing to implement what is required.

Working with a coach means enrolling into a program (or retreat/seminar) in which you will have to do things that you never did before.

If you are not willing to execute and you want to keep doing the same things, then nobody can help you.

 

4. BE PREPARED TO INVEST THE MONEY

Confidence coaches aren’t cheap. Let’s be honest, they are probably more expensive than other practitioner but they give you results.

 

If you want to transform your life and get results, you need to INVEST ON YOURSELF. 

 

There has to be an exchange of resources. You can’t expect to get it for free. The result that you get will be way more valuable of the amount that you pay.

 

Think it in this way, if you have to give a price to finding confidence, learning self love, stop over analysing, how much would it be? PRICELESS right? Exactly, that’s what you pay for. You pay for the value.

 

Also you can’t expect to receive a quick fix by paying a small amount.

 

Would you pay a builder to renovate your house? YES!  In the same way, you need to pay a life coach to restructure your inner world. You can’t expect it for free. Same that you can’t expect a builder to transform your house for a cheap amount. Months of work require investment.

 

Then you will get to live in your new house forever and it’s worth every dollar.

 

For peace of mind, always ask for a money-back guarantee, because you can always realise that you bought the wrong product.

 

5. DON'T LET FEAR STOP YOU

You need to take a leap of faith. As much as you want to do it, there will always be fear. You might think that you don’t have the money or time. These are all sabotaging behaviours that are trying to keep you safe.

The unknown is one of the scariest places, but it’s also where the most amazing things happen.

Remember that the money-back guarantee policy is there to protect you and you always make time for what it’s important to you.

If you don’t act now, where would your life be in the next 5/10 years? While if you invest in yourself and change how many possibilities will unlock for you?

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